When we are at the end of a relationship we need time out to think and to get to know ourselves a little better.
We need to heal any emotional pain, and we need to decide what we want in a relationship. Here are some questions to ask yourself:
- What sort of person do you want as a partner?
- How to you want to be treated within a relationship?
- What exactly do you want to get out of a relationship?
- What are you prepared to give to a relationship?
What has this got to do with Koala Bears? Not a lot really.
However, the more we work on ourselves and grow ourselves our perspectives change and like the Koala at the top of a tree, we have a different view of the world from those who are still "living on the ground".
This in turn means that we attract different kinds of people into our lives, giving us a better chance of having a "Flourishing Relationship".
The Out and About Therapist
Facilitator at Flourishing Relationships Retreats