Many of
us at some stage in our lives find ourselves getting married. Some are lucky
enough to find the right partner and stay married for life, but many marriages
falter and couples split up.
When we
are young and in love, the idea of marriage seems a bit like a fairy tale like
Cinderella or Sleeping Beauty and how they all live happily ever after with the
handsome man getting his beautiful bride.
There is
all the hype and drama about the wedding itself; the venue, the ceremony, the
Brides outfit, the wedding guests, presents, Bucks nights, Hens nights etc,
etc,
I often
wonder if couples actually think about their life after the wedding and what it
is that each of them wants from the marriage. Here are a few questions that I
think each partner should ask them selves and each other before the Big Day.
1.
What
do you want from this relationship?
2.
What
are the qualities that your partner has that you love the most?
3.
Do
you feel love and respect for your partner?
4.
Do
you feel that your partner loves and respects you?
5.
What
is it that your partner does that you like the least?
6.
What
does your partner do on a regular basis that makes you feel loved?
7.
What
does “Being Loved” mean to you?
There are
other topics that need to be discussed and agreed upon such as:
·
whether
or not they want to have children and how many.
·
how
they manage their money.
·
how
they work together at home with the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping and
all those jobs that we all have to do around the house.
·
what
is important to each partner regarding their lifestyle.
·
what
are their visions for their future together.
Hilary Thompson
The Out and About Therapist
Facilitatorat Flourishing Relationships Retreat
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